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Dance Like No One's Watching...

Goodbye, Funksteena, wherever you're going.
 
This piece was written in 1998 by Crystal Boyd and was titled "Happiness." It first appeared on an Internet list server called "Prose for the Weekend" and was later incorporated into her published book, Midnight Muse. It has been erroneously listed as "Author Unknown" in many places on the 'Net, in a number of languages, and is frequently misquoted. There seem to be a few variations, and this is one of them. 
 
I posted it here in 2006, but it has been suggested by ounceofwentz that I repost it, and now I have a reason to do so...
 
This is dedicated to Funksteena, who will be missed by so many of us, and in hopes that her journey will bring her what she's looking for, and back to us renewed and refreshed... 

Happiness
 
We convince ourselves that life will be better after we get married, have a baby, then another. Then we are frustrated that the kids aren’t old enough and we’ll be more content when they are. After that, we’re frustrated that we have teenagers to deal with. We will certainly be happy when they are out of that stage. We tell ourselves that our life will be complete when our spouse gets his or her act together, when we get a nicer car, when we are able to go on a nice vacation or when we retire.
 
The truth is there’s no better time to be happy than right now. If not now, when? Your life will always be filled with challenges.
 
It’s best to admit this to yourself and decide to be happy anyway. Happiness is the way. So, treasure every moment that you have and treasure it more because you shared it with someone special, special enough to spend your time with… and remember that time waits for no one.
 
So, stop waiting

... until your car or home is paid off,
... until you get a new car or home,
... until your kids leave the house,
... until you go back to school,
... until you finish school,
... until you lose ten pounds,
... until you gain ten pounds,
... until you get married,
... until you get a divorce,
... until you have kids,
... until you retire,
... until summer,
... until spring,
... until winter,
... until fall,
... until you die.
 
There is no better time than right now to be happy.
 
Happiness is a journey, not a destination.


By Crystal Boyd, from Midnight Muse, 2000

 

Thought for today:

Work like you don't need money.
Love like you've never been hurt.
Dance like no one's watching.



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Posted on 02/06/2008 3:23 AM Visits: 274
Ikky-ikky-arriba!: 02/06/2008 4:12 AM
A wonderful sentiment.
Ana: 02/06/2008 4:49 AM
This is beautiful John! I wish I could have get to know her better...everyone loves her so much!
Queen Of Cydonia: 02/06/2008 4:57 AM
This is perfect, John. A wonderful tribute, amazing message.... I love this!
twisssssted: 02/06/2008 5:05 AM
I love this--- I am going to REALLY miss her. :-(
hungoverandunder: 02/06/2008 5:57 AM
I love this--- I am going to REALLY miss her. :-(
i don't think she's going just cutting down on the time she gives buzznet. but that might just be wishful thinking
kassady: 02/06/2008 6:01 AM
this is lovely john.
masha3000: 02/06/2008 6:40 AM
Thanks John, this is great :-)
denaliluna: 02/06/2008 7:53 AM
yep yep!
sstrokerj: 02/06/2008 10:04 AM
Very moving post John
Harold Bensington: 02/06/2008 10:17 AM
Reading this again really sets things in perspective again. It reminds me that everyone should appreciate everyone else's existence as much as they can because sometimes people slip through your fingers...like Funksteena. She will be missed by many, and she'll always be loved by Buzznet.
Great journal, John.
blackhardtphotos: 02/06/2008 1:37 PM
That was very nice lex.
Funk, I only just begun to know you :(
R
heartsapocolypse: 02/06/2008 5:52 PM
And sing like no one is listening...

Beautiful sentiments shared by most...
ArtsySF ©: 02/07/2008 2:16 PM
Wonderfully stated John. Funksteena put a lot of time and personal effort into helping Buzznet with the Buzznet Originals. She will be missed by many, myself included. Thanks so much Funks!

I think that everyone here on Buzznet appreciates you posting this "Happiness" message John! It's time for reflection upon the most important things in our lives - family and friends.
Jennifer: 02/08/2008 7:04 AM
Fantastic thought.......I hope some will take at least a part of this to heart! great post John....thanks for putting in here!
heartsapocolypse: 02/08/2008 7:01 PM
Aha, I finally found this!
Sing like no one's listening, love like you've never been hurt, dance like nobody's watching, and live like its heaven on earth. Mark Twain
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